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Friday, June 30, 2006

So you found my blog...

Or maybe you're finally getting in tune with what I need. I don't know, all I know is that I am one happy girl today. Yes, I did the kinky thing..(which I don't mind, and I enjoy the extra attention I get from it).. and you were amazing. Really, all it takes is a little extra attention to turn me from a grumpy fat bitch into someone who cares about herself and you. Thank you, whatever your motivation. There is definately some hope for us.


Blogger The Lioness said...

I'm happy this is the first post I've read, there might be hope. I am so sorry, it must hurt like bloody hell. I don'tt hink men realise how affected we are by the way we see ourselves,a nd how easy it is for us to hate ourselves over something that many would describe as simply looks. There's nothing simple abt looks, or abt not feeling sexy enough or at all. And there is a double standard that makes it harder bcs men are somehow exempt from feeling terrible if they gain weight, and it's not even like they all look fabulous if fatter.

I wish you luck, loads of luck. I wish you can eat more grilled veggies (my favourite as well), I wish you will begin losing some of that way and feeling pretty, for yourself. And I wish your husband starts listening and seeing more, and being grateful for having someone by his side who is still willing to try even when almost all of the feedback she gets is negative.

Best of luck, really.

8:29 AM  
Blogger Kay said...

Wow. I so identify with you. It's eerie, even. Are we twins?

7:03 PM  

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